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What Mothers and Daughters Should Know About Birth Control
By Carma Haley
One of the many topics that parents will discuss with their children is sex. It's not an easy subject and not many parents find joy in having "the talk." But it's necessary and inevitable. When discussing sex, contraception and protection with a teen, parents should remember to cover all bases and allow the child to ask questions along the way. Discussing sex is not offering a child an open invitation to participate or become sexually active; it is a parent's way of ensuring that a teen has accurate information to make an educated decision when the time comes -- and it will come.
Most experts agree that abstinence is definitely the best option for teens. But if your child is sexually active -- and many are -- you can help your teen to be safe with the best method of protection.
"Next in importance of factors to consider would be lifestyle," Carrozza says. "If a teen has already decided to become sexually active she will need to consider the other aspects involved with her decision. For example, is her partner inclined to share in the responsibility? If so, there are simple methods available that either party can obtain. If he refuses, then she will have to look at the alternative methods that she's in control of and offer her the best protection." In addition, if a female is only sexual active once a month, resorting to a method of contraception that offers protection all month long may not be worth the time, effort or money. However, if a female is more sexually active, ensuring extended protection may be the better alternative. 

